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How To Use Business Cards To Network And Market Your Business e things I cannot change, the courage
to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”You've had one thousand of the finest, most eye-catching business cards printed. Now, what do you do with them?Networking with business cards is one of the most cost effective means of marketing your business--and yourself.Get those business cards out!Don't leave them sitting in the box, they do you no good there. Get them into the hands of your prospects! If you think of your business card as a mini-billboard for your company, you'll re This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to k Create My Own Webpage - A Personal Review Recently a friend asked me, "Is it possible to revive lost feelings?" And my answer was, “It depends.” Since many other people have also wondered if love can be revived, it’s worth considering the possibilities:Recently I signed up for Myspace so that I could create my own webpage. Personally, I felt it would be fun to have my own personal space to keep track of daily happenings by means of a blog, or maybe save and display my favorite pictures and even make some new friends in cyberspace.Sure, I thought it would be a cool way to keep in touch with friends in Toronto to keep them updated of happenings here in Winnipeg, and to let them keep an eye on our k 1. If the feelings are true feelings, and if they were lost because one or the other partner was immature (causing fear and/or poor treatment), and if they are both willing to work on those immaturities, then the answer is "Yes, the feelings can be revived." 2. If the feelings were a result of infatuation, and they were not really true feelings, then the answer is “No, they cannot be revived.” 3. If there was some degree of infatuation which has worn off, and if the remaining feelings are true feelings but not as strong as the original feelings, then the answer is “Maybe they can be revived to some degree.” In other words the feelings cannot be revived to their original state, but if the true feelings are good, they can be polished and made to shine at their true (good but not great) levels, provided both partners want to accept such a compromise and work to overcome the immaturities that keep them from enjoying this level of love. In the real world of relationships, all three of the above scenarios can be found with great regularity. The problem is how to decide which one applies to your own situation. The best way to find out is for both partners to take the “Romantic Attraction Questionnaire” and the “Emotional Maturity Questionnaire” developed by my collaborating psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D. These questionnaires measure the degree of true feelings (romantic chemistry) and the degree of willingness/ability to work at a relationship (emotional maturity). Someone confronted with the question of reviving old feelings needs to have insight. Recall the “Serenity Prayer”: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to k Your Lack Of Success Is Not Your Fault ved."Have you done all that your upline told you to do and the results are still the same? Are you purchasing the leads, making the cold calls, dialing a hundred calls a day, running ads in the classified with minimum return? My guess is nothing seems to work and now you feel like a failure in this business call Network Marketing.Chances are you got into network marketing to make money not lose money, right? I'm here to tell you my friend, that your lack of succ 2. If the feelings were a result of infatuation, and they were not really true feelings, then the answer is “No, they cannot be revived.” 3. If there was some degree of infatuation which has worn off, and if the remaining feelings are true feelings but not as strong as the original feelings, then the answer is “Maybe they can be revived to some degree.” In other words the feelings cannot be revived to their original state, but if the true feelings are good, they can be polished and made to shine at their true (good but not great) levels, provided both partners want to accept such a compromise and work to overcome the immaturities that keep them from enjoying this level of love. In the real world of relationships, all three of the above scenarios can be found with great regularity. The problem is how to decide which one applies to your own situation. The best way to find out is for both partners to take the “Romantic Attraction Questionnaire” and the “Emotional Maturity Questionnaire” developed by my collaborating psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D. These questionnaires measure the degree of true feelings (romantic chemistry) and the degree of willingness/ability to work at a relationship (emotional maturity). Someone confronted with the question of reviving old feelings needs to have insight. Recall the “Serenity Prayer”: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to k Managing Expectations e good, they can be polished and made to shine at their true (good but not great) levels, provided both partners want to accept such a compromise and work to overcome the immaturities that keep them from enjoying this level of love.It is a reasonably excepted fact among marketers and educators that business has undergone an evolution in the past century. This evolution as often been described as a movement from the production concept (this is the Henry Ford, make it and they will buy philosophy) to the selling concept (here we assume that customers don’t buy, they are sold to, so the emphasis and accountability were put on the sales forces, unfortunately resulting in the beloved “hard-sell”) to the In the real world of relationships, all three of the above scenarios can be found with great regularity. The problem is how to decide which one applies to your own situation. The best way to find out is for both partners to take the “Romantic Attraction Questionnaire” and the “Emotional Maturity Questionnaire” developed by my collaborating psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D. These questionnaires measure the degree of true feelings (romantic chemistry) and the degree of willingness/ability to work at a relationship (emotional maturity). Someone confronted with the question of reviving old feelings needs to have insight. Recall the “Serenity Prayer”: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to k Rebuilding Your Credit History Romantic Attraction Questionnaire” and the “Emotional Maturity Questionnaire” developed by my collaborating psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D. These questionnaires measure the degree of true feelings (romantic chemistry) and the degree of willingness/ability to work at a relationship (emotional maturity).Your credit history is very important for you because when it comes to big loans your credit report will determine if you can get the loan and what rates you’ll have to pay. The credit report will matter a lot when you apply for a mortgage loan, for a car loan or for getting insurance on your house, your car or your life. If your credit report does not look so good it is possible that you’ll not get the loan or insurance or if you get it the interest will be higher than n Someone confronted with the question of reviving old feelings needs to have insight. Recall the “Serenity Prayer”: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to k The / (Root) Directory in the Linux File System - Linux Training Online - Linux Concepts & Terms e things I cannot change, the courage
to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”When you are a new Linux OS (operating system) user starting to get Linux training, you may become frustrated by Linux documentation that uses several different terms to refer to the same thing - or to a similar thing.To help put an end this Linux frustration, this article describes the terms: / (root directory) and /root (the home directory of the root user) and root user, in relation to one another.We are going to focus on describing the / (root) directory This advice is highly applicable to love relationships. In situation #1 (true chemistry) it takes a lot of courage to face the fears and immaturities in order to revive old feelings. In situation #2 (infatuation), there is no real choice but to accept that they cannot be revived (and move on). In situation #3 (mixed feelings) you must have real wisdom to know if you can truly live with the compromises, and then constructively work to create a good love relationship. I think many relationships fail just at the point where they could succeed if only the partners had more insight (“the wisdom to know the difference”), and more patience. In the situation with my friend, the relationship had lasted for 3 years. She wanted it to continue, but he wasn’t sure. He said he still felt "warm" towards her, but not like it was at the beginning. He displayed a variety of signs of immaturity, such as failure to call when he promised, missing dates, making her wait, disappearing, etc. Also, after 3 years he may have been feeling an internal pressure to decide "yes or no" about this relationship. Given his immaturities and inexperience, this may have been causing a lot of anxiety and it was easier for him to run away than to stay and face the very real difficulties of a more serious relationship. All-in-all he did not treat her well, and this caused her pain. She wanted to know if love could be revived, and I said “it depends.” To me it looked like she was probably up against situation #3 (mixed feelings). It will not be easy for him to change (grow up), and there’s no guarantee he will. Neither will it be easy for her to deal with the continuing pain (she will have to grow up also). Insight (and patience) will help. Copyright 2005, Randy Hurlburt
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