that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

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Being able to read subtle non verbal communication cues (body Language) is a very important skill that you need to develop if you are looking to be as successful as you can be in approaching women.

It has been estimated that less than 10% of our communication is related to specifically what we say. The vast majority of our communication is not only in how we say what we say, but also in the very subtle unconscious physiological responses and behaviours commonly referred to as body language.

It has been said that the body doesn't lie. While we may not be able to trust WHAT someone says to us, we can certainly get closer to the truth by observing what happens in their body as they are telling us. And of course this works both ways. If we want to reveal less of ourself when we interact with people, we should become aware of our give away signs that people can read.

This is really about walking your talk. It doesn't matter how good your conversational skills are and how many smooth pick up lines you have rehearsed to perfection, if your body language conveys a different message then your conversational skills will count for nothing.

This is especially important when communicating with women who are notoriously more "sensitive" to these kinds of things. They can spot an incongruent liar a mile away, largely because the lairs non verbal communication has betrayed them, before they even get 2 words out.

So specifically how can you use non-verbal body language communication to convey the kind of impression that will attract women rather than repel them?

The first one is easy. Smile.

You want to give the impression that you are a nice friendly warm kind of guy. I'm sure you are all these things, but in order for you to communicate this to her in a way that will create positive feelings in her towards you, smile genuinely and often.

This is particularly important on your first meeting where you will only have seconds before she has classified you as worthy of her attention or not.

A smile will also exude confidence to her. Scared, wishy washy guys do not smile big smiles. They have no reason to, and women know this.

A smile can disarm just about anyone. And the ones it doesn't work on you probably want to avoid anyway.

If you are not a natural smiler, practice. Smile at anyone for no reason. Anyone you interact with, couple that interaction with a warm genuine smile. Not some crazed psycho type smile. A warm genuine smile.

Believe it or not many people are so not used to smiling that their muscles have kind of wasted away. No problem. Exercise will build them back up. Practice smiling in a mirror. Smile in an exaggerated way. Really stretch your lips and mouth into the smile. And before you know it you will be smiling with the best of them.

If there is a reason why you don't want to show your teeth, get it fixed. Whatever it costs will be worth it. A life without smiles (and what a smile can lead to) is no life at all.

Eye contact is also a critical part of successful non verbal communication. But like a lot of this stuff what should be a natural part of communicating, is often anything but.

One added "hazard" that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

Meaningful a

people, we should become aware of our give away signs that people can read.

This is really about walking your talk. It doesn't matter how good your conversational skills are and how many smooth pick up lines you have rehearsed to perfection, if your body language conveys a different message then your conversational skills will count for nothing.

This is especially important when communicating with women who are notoriously more "sensitive" to these kinds of things. They can spot an incongruent liar a mile away, largely because the lairs non verbal communication has betrayed them, before they even get 2 words out.

So specifically how can you use non-verbal body language communication to convey the kind of impression that will attract women rather than repel them?

The first one is easy. Smile.

You want to give the impression that you are a nice friendly warm kind of guy. I'm sure you are all these things, but in order for you to communicate this to her in a way that will create positive feelings in her towards you, smile genuinely and often.

This is particularly important on your first meeting where you will only have seconds before she has classified you as worthy of her attention or not.

A smile will also exude confidence to her. Scared, wishy washy guys do not smile big smiles. They have no reason to, and women know this.

A smile can disarm just about anyone. And the ones it doesn't work on you probably want to avoid anyway.

If you are not a natural smiler, practice. Smile at anyone for no reason. Anyone you interact with, couple that interaction with a warm genuine smile. Not some crazed psycho type smile. A warm genuine smile.

Believe it or not many people are so not used to smiling that their muscles have kind of wasted away. No problem. Exercise will build them back up. Practice smiling in a mirror. Smile in an exaggerated way. Really stretch your lips and mouth into the smile. And before you know it you will be smiling with the best of them.

If there is a reason why you don't want to show your teeth, get it fixed. Whatever it costs will be worth it. A life without smiles (and what a smile can lead to) is no life at all.

Eye contact is also a critical part of successful non verbal communication. But like a lot of this stuff what should be a natural part of communicating, is often anything but.

One added "hazard" that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

Meaningful

s easy. Smile.

You want to give the impression that you are a nice friendly warm kind of guy. I'm sure you are all these things, but in order for you to communicate this to her in a way that will create positive feelings in her towards you, smile genuinely and often.

This is particularly important on your first meeting where you will only have seconds before she has classified you as worthy of her attention or not.

A smile will also exude confidence to her. Scared, wishy washy guys do not smile big smiles. They have no reason to, and women know this.

A smile can disarm just about anyone. And the ones it doesn't work on you probably want to avoid anyway.

If you are not a natural smiler, practice. Smile at anyone for no reason. Anyone you interact with, couple that interaction with a warm genuine smile. Not some crazed psycho type smile. A warm genuine smile.

Believe it or not many people are so not used to smiling that their muscles have kind of wasted away. No problem. Exercise will build them back up. Practice smiling in a mirror. Smile in an exaggerated way. Really stretch your lips and mouth into the smile. And before you know it you will be smiling with the best of them.

If there is a reason why you don't want to show your teeth, get it fixed. Whatever it costs will be worth it. A life without smiles (and what a smile can lead to) is no life at all.

Eye contact is also a critical part of successful non verbal communication. But like a lot of this stuff what should be a natural part of communicating, is often anything but.

One added "hazard" that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

Meaningful

ion with a warm genuine smile. Not some crazed psycho type smile. A warm genuine smile.

Believe it or not many people are so not used to smiling that their muscles have kind of wasted away. No problem. Exercise will build them back up. Practice smiling in a mirror. Smile in an exaggerated way. Really stretch your lips and mouth into the smile. And before you know it you will be smiling with the best of them.

If there is a reason why you don't want to show your teeth, get it fixed. Whatever it costs will be worth it. A life without smiles (and what a smile can lead to) is no life at all.

Eye contact is also a critical part of successful non verbal communication. But like a lot of this stuff what should be a natural part of communicating, is often anything but.

One added "hazard" that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

Meaningful

that we face as guys trying to talk with women is the "Boob Factor". Even the best trained of us often have eyes that defy our control descending downward as we become transfixed by her breasts.

Be aware of this and if you're a perpetual boob starer, start looking her in the eyes from time to time. If you do this you will separate yourself from the hungry pack of boob guys that all but the smallest breasted of women have to contend with. This is a good thing. If you look her in the eyes and smile, already you are not like a lot of guys who she has probably met.

Maintain eye contact with her for about 75% of the time. Especially when she is talking. Take in her every word not just with your ears but let her see that you are focused intently on what she is saying and her.

Meaningful appropriate (no psycho stalker staring) eye contact allows connection to occur at a much deeper level much more quickly. While a lot of guys will use eye contact as a "technique" to manipulate a particular result, don't be at all surprised if you begin to develop very real, strong feelings for this person within minutes of meeting them.

Eye contact is that powerful. Consider yourself warned.

The third most obvious body language influencer is your general posture. And guys there is really only one way to go here, straight and tall. Someone who walks with their chin up also walks with their spirit high. Our physiology affects our emotional states and how we feel. Upright and straight makes us feel energised, even when we aren't.

Everyone knows how to adopt a depressed posture. Slumped, shoulders curved, eyes down etc. Now even a little bit of this slumping posture can not only affect how you feel, but also affect how others feel about you.

So straighten up. Look the world in the eye, as well as the women you meet. This will scream confidence to women more than any words you can say will ever do.

And that's it. Deliberately adopting these 3 non verbal communication cues and making them a part of your daily life and interactions with everyone you meet male or female, will impact your social life generally, and your dating life particularly, in lots of very positive ways.