u that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he clI thought you might like this analogy of how lots of people apprroach mentoring and coaching. I wrote it to a client who keeps saying that there is nothing there.

If you are driving a car and it is coughing and spluttering, using loads of fuel and only has a top speed of 50 k's, and all of a sudden a car roars past you making no noise, just purring along at a 100 k's using hardly any fuel. What do you think? Of course, I want one of them. You meet up with the owner at a gas station and you ask him where to buy that type of car. He tells you that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he cle

t there is nothing there.

If you are driving a car and it is coughing and spluttering, using loads of fuel and only has a top speed of 50 k's, and all of a sudden a car roars past you making no noise, just purring along at a 100 k's using hardly any fuel. What do you think? Of course, I want one of them. You meet up with the owner at a gas station and you ask him where to buy that type of car. He tells you that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he cl

of 50 k's, and all of a sudden a car roars past you making no noise, just purring along at a 100 k's using hardly any fuel. What do you think? Of course, I want one of them. You meet up with the owner at a gas station and you ask him where to buy that type of car. He tells you that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he clink? Of course, I want one of them. You meet up with the owner at a gas station and you ask him where to buy that type of car. He tells you that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he clu that he does not understand you, because his car is the same as yours he just found a unique mechanic that keeps his in order and he cleans it every day.

The only problem is, the mechanic lives on the other side of the hill across a creek and down a dark track. He can tell you how to get there ,but there is a distinct possibility that you will get lost. You take the directions, and over the next few months you make many attempts at finding the mechanic, all to no avail. At this point it all becomes too hard, and you carry on driving the car, accepting its performance as OK and you just forget about the other car and carry on.

This is where you are now! How frustrate