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Answer Upon - Solve Problems in Your Sleep - 5 Step Dream Analysis
The elements of comedy usually require a surprise, a wet paint bench, an embarrassing mistake or a pratfall for the hero to transcend into the victim and make us laugh. The victimization can run the gamut from good clean fun to lightly-veiled sadistic words meant to destroy the object of the joke. Situational humor is one kind of joke, slapstick is hysterical for some or can become boring rather quickly and bathroom humor seems often too gross. Yet, have you laughed at a Pollock joke, an Irishman, an Italian and a Frenchman in a bar joke, or a blond joke? If so, can you be quite as outraged as you ought to be when someone says a sexist, racist, or sexual orientation joke or comment?Do you hold the sense of humor of a teacher, elected official or religious leader at a different standard than your favorite stand- up? Is the cowboy hat a costume of farce when worn indoors? Thus, is Imus a comedian? If Imus is a comedian, then people who choose to listen to him expect to laugh. Did you consider Imus a p
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit dow
There's a lot of confusion about truth these days. In June of '05, I watched Joel Osteen's smile go from genuine to forced under the blunt questioning of Larry King, and one thing became clear: popular Christianity is uncomfortable with the concept of absolute truth. Since September 11, 2001, there has been increasing pressure to accept all beliefs as equally valid, and we now find ourselves in a culture that is indignant towards any claim of absolute truth. My fear is that Christian evangelism is moving away from declaring that Jesus is the Only Way, and moving towards offering up an insipid, feel-good, like-me-and-buy-my-book version of the gospel.If we are ambivalent about truth, the world will sense our inner conflict and become confused and cynical. In determining which truth claims are indeed true, I have found it helpful to understand the nature of truth itself.There are basically three competing views of truth:The sensible correspondenc
The five step process
There are a number of methods to incubate issues and retrieve solutions thrown up in our dreams. This specific process is one I have developed over a number of years and is based around Gestalt methodology at its core.
- Define
- Commit
- Retrieve
- Analyse
- Connect
Define
The first step in using dream analysis as a tool for solving problems is to clarify and define the problem in a coherent manner. There are a few rules that I find useful in this respect.
- Most well defined problems start with a ‘How’ or a ‘What’. For example, ‘How can I incentivise my employees better’, or ‘What can I do to improve my relationship with my Mother’.
- Target ‘Positive change’ rather than looking at current negative situations. For example, ‘How can I become a fit size 12, rather than ‘How can I lose 20 lbs.
- Look at the greater good rather than personal gain. For example, ‘How can I find my perfect spouse’, rather than ‘How can I make Jane fall in love with me’.
- Your solution should not impinge on another person’s life. For example, ‘How can I become a millionaire’, not ‘How can I be richer than Bill’.
Your issue is almost always going to be something that will make a major impact on your life, something you have been concerned about for some time, and definable in less than 10 words.
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit down
I had a friend who was getting married to her long time partner. They had lived together for a number of years, and owned property together. It seemed that marriage would simply perfect what they had - make it permanent. After my friend told me about their plans, I asked a question: ‘Have you though about pre-marriage counseling?’ The question surprised her.In the rush, the excitement, not to mention the incredible organizational pressure of organizing your wedding, many people don’t care to think about something as mundane and as sober as pre-marriage counseling. Why rain on the parade? Why descend from cloud nine? Why try to squeeze it in, with all the other things that have to be organized? (Who needs it, anyway?)Well, this is why: your wedding is one day in your life, but your marriage is all the rest of the days that come after it. No other relationship, except perhaps parenthood, even comes close in terms of the challenges and triumphs of marriage. It is the most intimate relationship c
The five step process
There are a number of methods to incubate issues and retrieve solutions thrown up in our dreams. This specific process is one I have developed over a number of years and is based around Gestalt methodology at its core.
- Define
- Commit
- Retrieve
- Analyse
- Connect
Define
The first step in using dream analysis as a tool for solving problems is to clarify and define the problem in a coherent manner. There are a few rules that I find useful in this respect.
- Most well defined problems start with a ‘How’ or a ‘What’. For example, ‘How can I incentivise my employees better’, or ‘What can I do to improve my relationship with my Mother’.
- Target ‘Positive change’ rather than looking at current negative situations. For example, ‘How can I become a fit size 12, rather than ‘How can I lose 20 lbs.
- Look at the greater good rather than personal gain. For example, ‘How can I find my perfect spouse’, rather than ‘How can I make Jane fall in love with me’.
- Your solution should not impinge on another person’s life. For example, ‘How can I become a millionaire’, not ‘How can I be richer than Bill’.
Your issue is almost always going to be something that will make a major impact on your life, something you have been concerned about for some time, and definable in less than 10 words.
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit dow
Whether you have no credit or damaged credit, secured credit cards are a good tool for building a good credit history.Several months ago Tom, a member of CreditBoards.com, filed for a Chapter 7 Bankruptcy. Now he is in the process of rebuilding his credit history. It’s a task that is not easy, but with patient persistence he is seeing progress already. Daily he checks his credit score and is slowly seeing improvement.1 - In addition to correcting every mistake, even the smallest ones, on his credit report, he is using a secured credit card.2 - This secured card is an important tool in the overall process of building or rebuilding credit.Who should consider a secured credit card?Someone who has no credit history.Someone with a damaged credit history.What is a secured credit card?Secured cards are credit cards opened with a deposit into a savings account, money market or certificate of deposit. The amou
- Define
- Commit
- Retrieve
- Analyse
- Connect
Define
The first step in using dream analysis as a tool for solving problems is to clarify and define the problem in a coherent manner. There are a few rules that I find useful in this respect.
- Most well defined problems start with a ‘How’ or a ‘What’. For example, ‘How can I incentivise my employees better’, or ‘What can I do to improve my relationship with my Mother’.
- Target ‘Positive change’ rather than looking at current negative situations. For example, ‘How can I become a fit size 12, rather than ‘How can I lose 20 lbs.
- Look at the greater good rather than personal gain. For example, ‘How can I find my perfect spouse’, rather than ‘How can I make Jane fall in love with me’.
- Your solution should not impinge on another person’s life. For example, ‘How can I become a millionaire’, not ‘How can I be richer than Bill’.
Your issue is almost always going to be something that will make a major impact on your life, something you have been concerned about for some time, and definable in less than 10 words.
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit dow
Massage therapy schools is a great way to earn and education and give your life some direction. You will not only be prepared for your job as a massage therapy, but also for life after school. You will be able to learn about how you can run a business and how to get a successful job in the field. Massage therapy is recently been growing. Many people are turning to massage therapy for help, so there are a lot of job opportunities out there in the market.However, you have to think of school as not only a learning place, but as an introduction to your competition. You school will line up jobs for you to take after you have gotten your degree. They will also be lining up other students for the same jobs as well. That’s why you must stand out in your class.You must come highly recommended by all your teachers and in most of the massage fields. Often they will bring in employers looking for students to hire and they will sit in on some classes and interview teachers to see who is the top of th
- Target ‘Positive change’ rather than looking at current negative situations. For example, ‘How can I become a fit size 12, rather than ‘How can I lose 20 lbs.
- Look at the greater good rather than personal gain. For example, ‘How can I find my perfect spouse’, rather than ‘How can I make Jane fall in love with me’.
- Your solution should not impinge on another person’s life. For example, ‘How can I become a millionaire’, not ‘How can I be richer than Bill’.
Your issue is almost always going to be something that will make a major impact on your life, something you have been concerned about for some time, and definable in less than 10 words.
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit dow
If you have an investment property, should you rent it or sell it? The answer to that question is that you should do both. If you have lots of time on your hands and are handy with tools, you can choose to rent out your property. However, if you have several properties for rent, maintaining them can consume lots of your time. You can choose to hire someone else to maintain your properties, but it cost you money. And higher expenses mean lower profits. In addition to investing your time, finding good tenants for your properties is not easy. Tenants that choose to rent usually do it for a reason. They are usually having credit problems. In addition, most tenants do not take good care of your properties like they would their own homes. And when things go sour, they can mess up your house before they move out. Your goal is to find good tenants to rent your property, transfer the maintenance responsibility to them, and create incentives for them to eventually buy your property. Including the option to
Commit
The next stage is to commit to the issue. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it around in your purse for 24 hours. Once you are 100% certain that you have defined the issue correctly, get ready to incubate the issue as you prepare for bed. 15 minutes before you get into bed, sit down on a chair with the paper in your hands. Read the words several times. Close your eyes, and keep the issue in your mind. If you meditate or pray, this is the moment to focus your thoughts around the issue. When you are ready, make sure that there is a pen and pencil, Dictaphone or tape recorder next to your bed to record your dream, put the paper with your issue under your pillow, and get into bed and enjoy a good nights rest.
Retrieve
Everyone dreams, unfortunately, the conscious mind does not approve of the retrieval of dreams as these dreams are the suppressed and repressed results of conscious thoughts and actions. It could take time to build up your ability to recollect and record your dreams, so if you are a beginner, you may need more help than I can give you on this page.
You could have a look at my paper on ‘How to interpret dreams’ that focuses on the more core aspects of dream recollection and interpretation: http://server81.blogspot.com/2007/01/interpret-your-dreamsin-5-easy-steps.html
For people who have had experience retrieving their dreams, please note that your ‘Eureka moment’ may not always be the last dream of the night. In fact, what usually happens is that you will wake up sometime in the middle of the night, with a clear recollection of a vivid dream. Make sure you record the dream before getting back to sleep, but record the final dream of the night as well, just in case.
Analyse
Again, for readers who have not read my paper on analysing dreams (http://server81.blogspot.com/2007/01/interpret-your-dreamsin-5-easy-steps.html), I would suggest that you read it in detail. It has a detailed step-by-step process to recording, transliterating and interpreting dreams. Other than that, there is no specific difference in the actual analytical process between incubated dreams and those that you have in the normal process of life. In fact, I would advise you to go through the first layer of
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